Digging ever further into the piles of old family photos this summer, there he was: Robert Spiegel, my first childhood crush! Our mothers were good friends, we lived in the same village, and so we saw quite a lot of each other when we were kids.
Here we are on a visit to Munich zoo:
I also found this photo, taken at a kindergarten carnival party:
The boy in the picture, Siegfried Terpoorten (‘Sigi’), was my second crush, after it had dawned on me that Robert, although quite sweet, wasn’t… well… the sharpest tool in the box.
Sigi was sharp witted and charismatic, even at that age. He oozed confidence, without being (overly) cocky, and enjoyed universal popularity. I’m not sure I had paid him all that much heed at the time the above picture was taken. We must have been around 6 years old in that shot. Three years later, though, he did something that left a lasting impression.
It happened during carnival season. The Village used to lay on a children’s costume party every year, held in the local community centre. The fest was in full swing, when Sigi swished through the doors, in a bright green chiffon dress, a wig with strawberry blonde pleats and painted-on freckles splattered across his nose.
The crowd, composed of 50% princesses and 50% cowboys/Indians (this was before the age of the superheroes), let out a communal gasp. Everyone took the piss, of course, but he didn’t seem to care in the least. In fact, he wore the same outfit again a couple of days later for our primary school’s carnival do.
I don’t remember which kid showed off with his or her first Gameboy, but I do remember this; in fact, it’s my first conscious memory of being seriously impressed by someone. That Sigi had balls, and not even a big girl’s blouse could dent his street cred.
With hindsight, I’d say it was his first public demonstration that he wasn’t going to comply with other people’s expectations, and that he had the perseverance to see things through. Sigi was meant to become an electrician, like his father, and take over the small family business. He played along for a time, and so, despite being clearly very bright, he ended up stuck at a school that catered for the lower strata of academic ability, affording him the minimum educational standard required for entering an electrician’s apprenticeship, which he did complete.
His real passion, though, had always been acting, and he was the shining star of local community and school theatre performances. Fiddling with wiring wasn’t going to do it for him in the long run, that much was obvious. So he went back to school, and even managed to get a scholarship to a prestigious acting school. Today, he’s a successful German TV, film and theatre actor, and lives, as far as I know, in Switzerland with his wife and children.
So then, any juicy stories about your first crushes…? Spill, people, spill!
Oh look at him now! You were right to have a crush on him. Why did you ever let him go?! Why?! Good man, in his dress. Gotta be impressed by that.
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Well, think the essence of a crush is that it’s not actually reciprocated 😉
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Good point : (
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W-o-w!!! Sigi is really interesting today:-)
None of my early crushes ended up being famous and for what I know, there isn’t a single crush I regret not pursuing longer. From time to time I have a look at their Facebook profiles…no, no, no regrets!!:-)
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None of my crushes were ever reciprocated, so I’m quite ‘safe’ there, lol.
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Holy Hunk! You see, THIS is why I am moving to Munich. Sigi is gorgeous! Is that a real grown-up photo? How am I supposed to concentrate on work? >…<
Also, you know that topic you suggested for me yesterday? I realized that no way could I wrote/post it, because at least 3 of my exes read my blog on the regular, and two of them would be essential to the story.
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He lives in Switzerland 😉
Bit old for you, perhaps…?
I see the problem…
Go there and zoom in on the 4th picture:
http://www.presseportal.de/pm/6708/892604/sat-1-fernsehbilder-43-programmwoche-vom-27-10-2006-bis-03-11-2006
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How young do you think I am (THANK YOU!)? Btw, I have gone 10 years junior (totally legal!) and 23 years senior (also totally legal)…
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I believe you’re 28…?
Ten years younger???? That’s only not indecent once you’re 35 😉
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A month out to 32 😀 !!! And when I am 35, indecent will be 17+ years younger. Because it will also be illegal. That’s my standard for decency.
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Well, I wasn’t too far out 😉 You don’t look a day over 21!
Age of consent varies across Europe, as I’m sure you know, so can go even lower, depending on where you are. 14 in Spain!
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Um…yeah, I think I will stick with the internationally-accepted age of majority, 18…
So, getting back to youth crushes. My first 5 were fictional characters. In fact, I would be nearly into my teens before I got my first RL crush.
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In Saudi Arabia it’s 9. You have to be married, though.
Fictionals don’t count.
We need a post. Get to it!
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First day back to the office post-Plague. Hold your horses 🙂
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I can wait for the good stuff.
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Fantastic story, good for Sigi by the way!
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Thanks! Yes, he’s a good guy 🙂
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Mmm, Sigi is a hotti 😉 A bit Matthew McConaughy but I hate him, so Sigi is better! Can’t help feeling a little sorry for Robert ‘lights are on but nobody’s home’ Spiegel though 😉
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He was (is, I suppose?) hilarious, it has to be said… great sense of comic timing.
Poor Robert. A thoroughly nice boy. No idea what he’s up to nowadays.
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Not on facebook or LinkedIn??
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Haven’t been cyberstalking him, to be honest…
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Better get on it then!
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Can’t find him on fb
You don’t tend to find people on fb who don’t have an OK command of English.
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Found 25 on LinkedIn but mostly in the US 😉
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He’s unlikely to have a googlable presence
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Well, thanks to me he probably has now 😉
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Was he religious??
http://www.salespider.com/bw-21577382/msgr-robert-spiegel
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Not 30+ yrs ago, lol, but anything’s possible – the locality kinda fits! But it’s not that uncommon a name.
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Like the German Janis 😉
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Not quite 😉
Anyway, haven’t you got poems to finish?!?
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It’s pretty much done 😉
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Working up the courage…?
Building up your wine stocks to combat the hate mail?
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A little nervous but also, I just posted yesterday – don’t want people to get sick of me!
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Why would they get sick of you??
Posting daily 1,500word-ers about how you ate a sandwich wile your left foot was hurting is how people get sick of you.
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Um, actually, my shoulders are quite sore and I’ve walked another couple of inches off my legs today… Have I lost you?!
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Hang on… I’ll tell you after I’ve posted six more lots of flowers…
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ghsyhnmjjjhnhngbgbfvfdvdfdvf – sorry, that was my forehead hitting the keyboard 😉
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Going by that string of letters, you seem to have a very narrow forehead… interesting… you could post something about that!
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It’s from clapping my hands to the sides of my head everything a student says something stupid 😉
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I can tell it’s been affecting you 😉
I might start teaching in a couple of weeks. Then we can bang our heads against items of hardware in unison.
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Oh, I”m already imagining the stories from your classroom! This is going to be great! 🙂
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Fingers crossed. I don’t really need the work, it’ll just be for entertainment.
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What a lovely position to be in! This time next year, … 🙂
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…you’ll be married to a Janis and putting your feet up!
(You’ll have to, after wearing stilettos all day, every day).
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Maybe I should start writing horror… 😉
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You’re already doing it like a pro…
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Great story. I always had crushes on the tall guys, being significantly taller than most kids until the end of high school when the boys caught up, that meant my crush potential was severely limited!
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But it must have been OK again in college 😉
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Well I think your story tops mine. I’m not sure I remember my first crush. I had a “date” when I was five. We flew kites together. I’m pretty sure the dude is in prison now. Even at five I knew he was heading that route. A year after our first and last date we had were in the same class. He cut the tip of his finger off and I’m pretty sure he did it on purpose. I know how to pick them.
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LOL – now THAT tops anything I’ve got 🙂
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Not in a funny way, well maybe. I do wish the guy well. Must be hard only living with 9 fingertips.
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I think I’ve found a serious entry for best last name ever: “Terpoorten”! You’ve got great taste, I must say.
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It’s not a name you’re likely to come across very often 😉
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Awesome story!! Sigi is HOT!! My crushes changed often. Definitely there would have to be brains with hotness. My first crush was four years older than me and the son of my mother’s friend. He was good-looking, had impeccable manners and sharp. Unfortunately, his life has not turned out very well. This makes me sad. But hundreds of crushes later (well, maybe not that many), I have found a dude who has it all. I don’t know what happened with the others and just hope they are doing well.
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Aw, that’s worked out well for you 🙂
And yes, brains definitely a ‘must have’.
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Yes, Sigi is hot! Very very sweet story
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Maybe I should have tried harder…!
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He’s a hunk for sure Lady! Great memories and thanks for sharing. Love the photo’s! 😀
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Thanks 🙂
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